Maria's home is just down the road from the William M. Botnan School in Santa Avelina. Twice a year, I participate as a member of a team that conducts in-services for their teachers. Since we sleep on cots in the school's classroom, we have the opportunity to explore the community. What caught my eye on my first visit was Maria out in her courtyard, winding cotton into a beautiful weaving.
During each consequent visit, I noticed that she never wore shoes. This past January, I promised myself that I would bring her some when I returned in July. I ended up bringing two pairs, hoping that at least one would fit. On my previous visit, she had told me she wore a size 37, which caught me off guard. How did she know her size? When was the last time she had even tried on a pair of shoes?
Sure enough, at the Cinderella-like moment, surrounded by children of all ages, it was obvious that her feet were larger than she had said. I was very disappointed that neither style fit.
While explaining that she should give them to some of her family members, it occurred to me that the old, stretched-out slide shoes I was wearing would probably work. After all, I had the luxury of another pair of shoes to wear the rest of the trip. In reaction to this offer, Maria burst into tears and fell to her knees in prayers of thanksgiving. I had no idea that my genuine concern for her would reward me with such a meaningful friendship, and even a spiritual experience.
I am going back for the William Botnan School's graduation at the end of October, and of course, I am taking shoes.
*Photos by Sara Ittelson (Cheryl's niece)
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